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Boss ass bitch.

A question floating around my head at the moment is ‘how do I become a boss ass bitch?’

I keep watching TV shows with the leads being strong powerful woman. I follow people like Helen Anderson and ZoeLondon who are strong powerful real life women.
And then I look at my life and wonder what I can change to make myself a strong powerful real life woman.

The truth is, it’s more of a mental state than an actual act.

I grew up thinking I was shy, when I’m actually just quiet. I know im not the loudest but you don’t have to be loud to be strong. You don’t have to shout to be heard.

Im learning how to become a manager and it’s such a mental state and learning how to carry myself as a boss ass bitch.

I would have loved it if god had blessed me with cups full of confidence but instead I have to find it in my own way. Growing up I always thought this would hinder opportunities.
I still have flaws and im trying to figure out how to articulate my words as well as I can write them down. Im still working out how not to cry ALL THE TIME.
I’m still working out where I want to go.

One thing ive noticed though is your environment can alter your life and how you lead it. Now I have my own space I spend almost every day off baking, something I always dreamed of doing. In relation to this my newest writing adventure involves baking. So now all im doing is itching to write and im determined to get a new laptop before the year is up so I can spend my time writing.
Ive also branched out and applied for something I’ve been talking about for years, im not holding out on it but its exciting trying to jump out of my comfort zone and start hustling harder than before on my journey to becoming a boss ass bitch.